D A N E

some thoughts...

Monday, November 01, 2004

Kapag ngkabuhol buhol...

Naranasan nyo na bang mag ayos ng sobrang buhol buhol na mga tali? ang hirap dba? d mo alam kung san ka magccmula..d mo alam kung anung unang ggawin? minsan nga mag dadalawang isip ka pa kung aayusin mo ba to o papabayaan mo n lng e. para san p b yan e tali lng nmn yan..

pano kung may mga tali kang nkabuhol na madami? anung ggwin mo? iba iba ung kulay nya tapos ang dami dami. may mga bago at may mga luma.. ngkataon lahat cla buhol buhol.. anu ggwin mo?

nkita mo ung favorite mong tali..nkabuhol..shempre una mong ggawin hhnapin ung gitna dba tas susubukan mong luwagan... ggmitan ng daliri o kaya kakagatin db?. lahat ggwin mo maalis lng sha sa buhol...

may isa ka namang nakitang tali na mjo luma na..nkita mo nkabuhol din...anu ggawin mo, mag titiyaga ka ba na hanapin un gitna o sa sobrang alang pasensha mo e hihilahin n lng, hoping na mwla rin ung buhol..

tpos nasilip mo pa ung isang kulay ng tali mo, isa sa mga unang nakuha mo sa buhay mo...kasama din sa buhol, anung ggwin mo, kkuha ng gunting tas sisirain n lng un...pde nmng ikabit ulit un sa pmamagitan ng pag dikit sa apoy dba? ganun ba naicip mo?

isipin mo kunwari lahat ng mga taling yan e mga KAIBIGAN mo... may mga bagong kakilala, may mga dati nang nanjan sa buhay mo na sumusuporta sayo nung una p lng. may mga dumating ulit na dati ng nwala... anung ggawin mo pag nabuhol lahat un?

pag ginunting mo ung isang tali, kasi nwalan ka na ng pasensha sknya, miski bago yan o luma. ala na, mapuputol na sha... PARANG PAGKAKAIBIGAN, hahayaan mo bang putulin n lng un kasi may ngawa sha sayong nde tlga maganda?

pag hinila mo ung isang tali sa sobrang inis mo, lalo lng itong hihigpit at lalo lng itong mabubuhol, mas mahihirapan ka nang tanggalin ito muli..PARANG PAGKAKAIBIGAN, iiwas k n lng ba ng iiwas? lalayo k n lng ba ng lalayo sknya ksi ayaw mong pagusapan ang hindi napagkakaunawaan?hanggang sa mahirapan kaung 2 na ayusin mo ulit ang dating magandang pagkakaibigan?


pag nkita mo nmn ung isang tali na nde mo mashadu gsto, hahayaan mo n lng ba itong nka buhol? PARANG PAGKAKAIBIGAN, hahayaan mo n lng ba at nde papansinin ang isa mong kaibigan na binabaliwala mo?

pag hinanap mo nmn ung gitna, at nagpakahirap para lng maalis lng sa buhol ang tali, dba ang sarap ng feeling? PARANG PAGKAKAIBIGAN, dba mas masarap kung paguusapan nyo ng mabuti at magtulungan kayo upang malutas ang mga problemang nagaganap sa buhay nyo?

sa pagaayos ng mga buhol sa mga tali mo, dpat meron kang mahusay na kamay. kasi kung nde ala lng mangyyari sayo..

marunong ka sana mag patawad at umunuwa sa mga nkasakit sau, marunong ka sana umintindi kpag nararamdaman mo na ngkukulang sila sayo sa anu mang paraan. matutuo ka sana na buksan ang iyong puso at isipan bago husgahan ang mga taong tingin mo e nagkulang sayo o nde nagtiwala sayo sapagkat nde m lng alam kung papano ka rin nla pinapahalagahan at pinagkakatiwalaan sa knilang mga sariling paraan... pgkat ikaw ay isang tao lng din lamang...


marunong ka bang magtanggal ng mga buhol buhol na tali sa pamamagitan ng iyong mga sariling kamay?

Tuesday, October 12, 2004

WhAt do u want?

Living in this world for 20 years is a rollercoaster ride for me. There were many ups and downs i've encountered along the way. i met friends who has helped me grow into what i am today. people around me became my inspiration... my family, friends, and everyone i have crossed paths with.

Journeying through life for me is like a once in a lifetime trip. you can't go back to the mistakes you've committed before for they will only serve as lessons learned as you continue on with your life. every decision you make will lead to a certain path in your life. all of your decisions are based on what YOU want. the decision you make maybe for your own benefit or for the benefit of others... all these decisions are based on what is going through your mind, what your instincts tell you, what you really feel.

of course there will come a time that you can't do what you want because of external factors around you. external factors like your family and friends. as i've mentioned earlier, they are the ones who help you become what you are today. they are there to give you guidance and support along the way. They can do anything for you except for one thing...to make a decision for you...

they can't make a decision for you because they aren't the ones living your life. of course anyone superior to you might say that "it is for your own good", or "it will be for the benefit of the organization", or "it will be for the benefit of the majority", which we have to respect from time to time. remember, life isn't only about you, but all the people around you as well. we are all connected to each other in a way.

my point is that no matter how intertwined our lives are, we all have to make our OWN decisions. although not all decisions we make are good enough for others, or not good at all, at least you can say and admit to yourself that you made your own mistake. you won't blame others for your actions since you were the one who decided for it in the first place. at least you followed your own heart and mind...

i'm not saying that you don't have to follow rules, may it be written or "UNWRITTEN" =p if you feel and know that your own judgement is better than what you think the rules state. i'm saying that from time to time, you must follow your own judgments as well. unlucky for us, some of our judgements might not conform to the rules given to us....

isn't it heavy on the guts whenever you didn't follow your own instinct on a particular situatuion wherein you let others decide only to find out later that your own judgement was the right thing after all?

Tuesday, October 05, 2004

shuttle..

naranasan nyo na ba sumakay sa isang shuttle pauwi? nde ito ung space shuttle ah, eto ung mas kilala sa bansag na "colorum"...

730pm..sumakay ako sa shuttle...uwing uwi na ako..gsto ko ng maramdaman ang aking kama at makakain ng masarap na pagkain...ngunit...

ako p lng ang unang pasahero at kailangan pang maghintay ng higit sa isang dosenang pasahero bago ito maglayag sa daan kung tawagin ay "skyway"...

ako'y umupo sa harap..,sa aking harap ay naglipana ang mga iba't ibang klase ng tao...may mga weirdo, may mga magka relasyon, at higit sa lahat, may mga magaganda...

lumipas ang ilang minuto at dumating ang aking isang kaibigan at akoy tinabihan sa harap. nagkaroon din ako ng kakwentuhan sa mga bagay bagay hnggang sa mapuno ang shuttle..

madami kaming napagusapan..kung anu anu...tawanan, tablahan, lokohan...ang sarap tlga pag may kasama ka habang bumabyahe..naaliw ka...ndi mo npapansin ang oras...

ang byaheng shuttle ay parang byahe ntin sa buhay...may mga nakilala taung iba't ibang tao at ito'y ating nagiging kaibigan..kaibigan na sasamahan ka sa byahe...dadamayan ka kung nagkaroon ng problema sa daan...

parang kau...kasabay ko kau lahat sa shuttle na ito, shuttle na magdadala satin sa iba't ibang parte ng mundo...magkakasama hnggng sa huli..magkakadamayan..magkakapamilya...

dba ang sarap ng may kasama sa shuttle? anu, sama ba kau sa byahe ko?

Monday, October 04, 2004

adik...

Panu mo ba malalaman kung adik ka sa isang bagay....

> pag un lng iniisip mo magdamag

> wla ka ng ibang gnawa kung di gawin ang bagay na kinakaadikan mo

>pumasok lng ng maaga sa school para gawin ito

> habang nkapikit ka sa gabi e un lng ang hinihintay mong gawin pag gicing mo sa umaga

> kapag pinag palit mo ang pag aaral para d2

> pag pinag palit mo ang tv at telepono para d2

>pag d ka nkikipagusap sa ym para lng gawin to

> pag nde ka na kumakain sa tamang oras para lng tapusin to

>pag ginawa mong parte na ng iyong buhay ang bagay na iyon

>pag umiwas ka sa mga gimik para lng gawin to

> kung eto n lng ang bukang bibig mo sa mga kaibigan mo

anu ba ang mga kinaadikan nyo ha?
ako...simple lng...sa ngaun...eto ang kinaadikan ko... ang BLOG
adik ka rin ba d2?

Thursday, September 30, 2004

Take d risk.....

In life, you can never get some things by only looking or dreaming at it. There are things that you have to work hard for before you get it. It could be a material thing, fame, or it could just be a girl that you want…

There she is, standing in front of you, laughing and giggling along with you and your other friends. She looked so elegant, so pure, and so beautiful. At a glance, you saw her pretty, innocent face. Many thoughts came across your mind…many wonderful thoughts….

You remembered the time you first met. At first you didn’t even noticed her, but after some time you began to discern and appreciate her traits. “She looked cute after all”, you said to one of your closest friends.

Days passed, and all you did was to praise her in your own little way. You tried to get involved in her life, you tried to help her with little things, and you began to share your life with her. But, is that what you really want? Just to get involved in her life? Or do you want to be a part of it?

You began questioning yourself. Do you really like this girl? Are you willing to sacrifice what you have just to be with her? Are you willing to face the consequences it might bring? Or you don’t care at all because you’re just simply overwhelmed by the fact that you really like her? Nothing matters anymore to you as long as you are beside her. You feel nothing but happiness every time you’re with her.

Then another thought came, “What does she think of me?”, you said. “Does she feel anything about me or she just thinks of me as a friend?” You can’t really tell just by asking yourself too many questions.

All this time you’re still looking at her, you then began to realize that she’s also looking at you. Still carrying that beautiful smile of hers, she’s also staring back at you. You didn’t say anything…she also didn’t utter any words…you just stared at each other.

You then looked straight at her tantalizing eyes and you wondered what lies beneath it. “What does she think of me?” you questioned yourself again. “Why is she only staring back at me?”

There is only one answer all these questions…. TAKE THE RISK to find out for yourself. Don’t just stare at the girl you want, talk to her…take the initiative! If you want something, take the plunge! Try to get it with all you’ve got. Don’t hold back…because in the long run you might regret it.

Of course, you won’t get everything you want. At least, if things don’t go the way you planned, you won’t regret it because you gave it all you’ve got. You took the risk…you took the risk…

Would it be nicer if the two of you were staring at each other knowing what the other feels for you? Both of you know what lies beneath those eyes you’re staring at…. You know that you’re staring at the person you really love all this time…that is if you took the risk and everything went well…

“Always take the chance & the result may not be always be what u hoped for, but that’s fine. At least you’ll never go through life wondering “what if” or “only if.”